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When you say stuff like, “How do you not like anime? ” or “I actually have a Chinese tribal tattoo and started taking karate lessons,” what you’re telling me is that you want me to be a certain type of Asian girl that you can bond over East Asian culture with.
While it’s admirable that you’re learning about different cultures than your own, but you might be appropriating Asian culture more than you think (and that’s a fine line you don’t want to cross).
I was also born and raised in Canada, so it’s not necessary for you to saying anything to me other than “hi,” “hello,” or “hey.”You also shouldn’t assume my ethnicity by the off chance you’re correct.
As a rule of thumb: if you don’t know, don’t guess. Contrary to what you might think, not all Asian people look the same., Xu explains that micro-aggression sounds a lot like cluelessness, and cluelessness sounds a lot like, “I’m white.
When you bring this tidbit of information into the conversation, I never quite know how to respond.My point is I can possess a variety of traits that don’t conflict with my ethnicity.When you frame a compliment under the umbrella of me being Asian, you diminish the value and sincerity of your words.Sadly, I’ve had multiple men come up to me and say, “I’ve never been with an Asian girl before ;)” or “I’ve always had a thing for Asian girls,” as if those statements would make me want to climb into bed with them.
I understand that people can’t help who they are attracted to, but explaining your Asian fetish to me is inappropriate at best and disturbing at worst.
Which is why I wrote this comprehensive breakdown on why Asian fetishism (and that pick-up line of yours) ain’t cute.