Dating a bad boy
Add false eyelashes to make your eyes look bigger and wear a deep lip color like mocha or a rich berry color.Lighten your look a little for a casual date by eliminating the false eyelashes and lightening up on the smoky eyeliner and eye shadow.They want a woman who can hold her own and take care of herself.The bad boy will almost always be wearing jeans, boots and a leather jacket and if he isn’t riding a motorcycle, then he will be cruising in a hot convertible. Busking and underground shows that pay in beer and pizza is fun, but it’s not exactly lucrative.Nope, the afterparty is at Craig the drummer’s place.You never know when you’ll hear from them or what they’ll do next. While I dated my share of bad boys – I knew in my heart these relationships would never last. There was a sense of freedom and confidence they displayed which I wanted for myself.So against my better judgment, I hopped on the back of their bikes, willing to risk my emotions for something – thrilling.
I hosted speed dating events for many years, and one of the complaints I heard most often from guys was, “why do women date jerks when they say they just want a nice, decent man? I’ve put together a few easy steps to help break you of the bad boy habit.
That’s never what they want.” The fact so many men said the same thing gave me pause. Are you dating a guy who’s – well – not so great for you?
Bad boys are charismatic, confident and mysterious.
I followed the same pattern for each new relationship – I thought bad boy was different – that he really loved and cared for me despite the cool indifference of his actions.
In truth, each one made me insecure, frustrated, and depressed.He’s giving off the right vibes, but why isn’t he making a move?