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But for some of those adhering to VIU waiting rules, the long wait could very well lead to the waiting prof having a mental breakdown and end up being institutionalized.
Or just when the prof thinks it is now safe to approach ones love object, the prof now finds that he is two months too late and the student has accepted the hand of another, and the other being another professor.
OK, I get it, it appears OK for the faculty member to develop a crush on a student, have feelings of love toward a particular student.
But checking this out with the student in terms of finding out if it is mutual would not facilitate the maintenance of appropriate boundaries.
However, the faculty member must remember that it is their responsibility to maintain appropriate boundaries with a student.
For VIU when does an age difference become too much of an age difference.Or after a four year wait and love now just around the corner, the prof finds out that the student has re-enrolled for another degree program. Making a practice of initiating sexual relationships with former students, however, would also be problematic.It could be understandable that a faculty member “falls in love” with a student once.And I expect that the highly educated and the not so highly educated are also ineligible for falling in love with each other, and so on and so on, no fraternizing with people from the wrong side of the tracks. And, of course, it would be unthinkable, unmentionable, for an administrator to fall in love with a student!
Often students and employees will share the same interests and the learning environment can encourage close collaboration and interpersonal support.And if the pool of nearby eligibles for dating happens to be mainly former students, it is the most “natural” thing in the world to end up dating and possibly mating with a former student.