My boyfriends on dating websites
All a spammer has to do is buy those emails or cell phone numbers, and then blanket message them all the same thing. I strongly suggest focusing on a solution to this issue, instead of thinking about what your boyfriend did in the past.
In this case, that might include getting the number blocked, having a quick discussion with your partner to let him know what's happened (and showing him this blog post), and finding the positives in the situation - such as you finding the text before the kids did. I get spam of all kinds on my phone, even when I'm not signing up for random dating sites to review them.
The PRIMARY reason for problems is that you do not have that in your marriage. But in the vast majority of cases this kind of thing is .
When handled right, the men come back to their senses. The “what about me” mentality is a worse marriage killer than cheating!
But, I was thrilled by the ultimatum given to the company by the hackers, because offering escapades to a married person having marriage trouble is like offering booze to an alcoholic. But I do not want you to think it will pass, and everything will automatically be okay.
If you do not change the underlying dynamics of your marriage, which you can accomplish without his involvement, this, and other problems, will keep cropping up again, and again.
We want your marriage to be resuscitated and set back on track; to be better than ever. The emotional impact, although destabilizing, has to be set aside, best you can, using both techniques, and the great alchemist; time. I have heard some wives tell me they understand ‘all that’…but. It means they ARE judging, and choose to not allow any understanding driven compassion and forgiveness into their heart. The following are reactions men who stray have to their marriage. But it takes longer for him to jump in and make effort, too. The chances for a successful recovery are nearly 100% on the wife’s determination.
It's possible, yet more likely that your cell number got thrown into some database somewhere (similar to emailed internet dating scams).Instead of getting swallowed up by the magnitude of his betrayal, let’s make it My ONLY desire is to help you get your marriage back, and we are very good at that.We have helped countless women do so; ones who were told it was impossible by others.Those couples who live in such a sweet loving marriage never consider cheating.
Not because it is immoral, but because their hearts minds and souls are so full of love that the thought never enters into their mind. The other reasons, which follow, are trite in comparison. Is it because he is a “two timing so-and-so who should rot in hell”? Those few are cursed with true mental disorders, or are evil (a hard bar to reach).
I just block them, try to use fake numbers if I have to when signing up for things that "require" a number, and leave it at that.